How To Win Back Your Cheating Wife

How To Win Back Your Cheating Wife


While your first instinct upon learning that your wife has been cheating on your might be to kick her to the curb it's not always the right decision to make. In many ways leaving your cheating wife is the easy solution.

You may hope that in time you'll be ready to move on. You might cling to the belief that once she's out of sight she'll be out of mind. That doesn't mean you'll be able to get over her that easily. Your best bet might be to find a way to win your cheating wife back and make her love you even more.

The good news is that she probably hasn't stopped loving you just yet. Most women don't fall in love fast nor do they fall out of love fast. Depending on how long the affair has been going on chances are good that you are still in good shape to win her back from the other man if that is what you have in mind.

Where should you begin?

Where have You let Her Down in the Marriage?

No marriage is perfect. You probably know what she wants you to give her that you haven't been delivering. If not, you need to sit down with your wife and have a long heart to heart conversation. She may not even be able to put a specific name to what he is doing for her that you do not but she probably knows how he makes her feel that is different. You must find out how to make her feel better than he does if you really want to win her back.

Lavish her with Your Appreciation

Most women really want very little from their husbands. There is this huge and largely incorrect myth floating around that women are complicated. They really aren't. Women are simple. They just don't always express themselves in a manner that makes sense to men. It's the whole "she said; he heard" thing.

Your wife wants to feel like you appreciate what she does for you. She wants you to acknowledge her efforts and thank her for them. She works hard to give you a nice place to come home to. She wants you to be comfortable and happy and does a lot to make sure you are. When you take those things for granted she feels unappreciated, used, and in some cases misused. Ultimately she feels unloved by you.

Then, another man comes along and flatters her, shows some small degree of appreciation for her, and completely sweeps her off her feet. If you give her all this at home he will have no hold over her.

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